What a good observation! And what were those standards?SDC wrote: But sometimes a spouse wants to know if they still meet the standard that attracted you to them in the first place
Just looks....? Then we have a problem, because looks will wane.
But if a relationships was based on inner values, then we don't, because inner values increase as we age, together. Not just one of the two.
Ouch....!a standard of brutal honesty is very important between a husband and wife.
I hope fate will never give me a husband that is brutally honest, much rather one that has loving kindness...!
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