Thank you both for the good advise.
I will do just that.
Funny you mention a retreat. I have been investigating a 3 day retreat to help me learn & understand. I have begun to save up so I can properly donate and provide dana to the kind people who operate the retreat...or should I say dana to the retreat to help it to help others in the future.
I know this should not be my ONLY consideration, but giving is a two way street. If I feel I have done all that I can to help, I believe my stay will be very fruitful.
20 minutes starts just as soon as I leave here tonight