the great rebirth debate

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"Then, householder, you should train yourself in this way: 'I won't cling to this world; my consciousness will not be dependent on this world... I won't cling to the world beyond; my consciousness will not be dependent on the world beyond.' That's how you should train yourself."
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= SpinyNorman "I think it's fine to question these things, and the authenticity of the suttas, etc, what bemuses me is how selective people can be about which bits they question."
=Chownah "Yeah, I know what you are saying......personally, I question all of it from time to time.
The questioning arises from inexperience, failure to experiment and to practice what has been studied and learned, or at least a lack of any direct memory of rebirth. Additionally, we have a tendency to forget things when exposed to severe trauma. Death and birth are both in fact traumatic no matter what the mechanisms. For that reason I avoid discussions regarding post-mortem rebirth, which based on my experience ( or lack there-of) cannot be proven, at least not by me, and stick to more local and recent experiences such as rebirth of mind contents as thoughts, words, attitudes, convictions and intentions for example; death and rebirth of somatic cells in our bodies, which can be directly observed under the microscope. Rebirth of convictions from experience as life's facts are revealed (changing our minds!) is perhaps the easiest for me to see during ongoing mindful observations :tongue:

As for faith, Buddha has been so correct on so many fronts that I have personally developed a deep faith in his teachings. From my own practice of validation and verification, following Buddha's advice in his "Charter of Free Inquiry", I have found his avisories always to be spot-on! Therefore, what I cannot validate and verify now in this life, I give "credit", based upon Buddha's past successes. :bow:
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-Dhammpada, 19, translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu.
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Ron-The-Elder wrote: The questioning arises from inexperience, failure to experiment and to practice what has been studied and learned, or at least a lack of any direct memory of rebirth. Additionally, we have a tendency to forget things when exposed to severe trauma. Death and birth are both in fact traumatic no matter what the mechanisms. For that reason I avoid discussions regarding post-mortem rebirth, which based on my experience ( or lack there-of) cannot be proven, at least not by me, and stick to more local and recent experiences such as rebirth of mind contents as thoughts, words, attitudes, convictions and intentions for example; death and rebirth of somatic cells in our bodies, which can be directly observed under the microscope. Rebirth of convictions from experience as life's facts are revealed (changing our minds!) is perhaps the easiest for me to see during ongoing mindful observations :tongue:

As for faith, Buddha has been so correct on so many fronts that I have personally developed a deep faith in his teachings. From my own practice of validation and verification, following Buddha's advice in his "Charter of Free Inquiry", I have found his avisories always to be spot-on! Therefore, what I cannot validate and verify now in this life, I give "credit", based upon Buddha's past successes. :bow:

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If you are debating, you are not practicing anything but running the mind and the mouth.

Nobody who debates rebirth will ever get closer to understanding it.

It must be understood through Stream Entry.

The modern world wants to Analyze everything. Intellectually "Figure it out".

It will never work.

You will debate and debate, and just when you're close, plop, someone will have a new argument. Some people will leave the debate stuck to their own notions (Conventions, attachment to ego), and others will only get more and more confused.

My advice is to practice. You won't find anything in this thread except more manure to clutter your mind.

Rebirth cannot be analytically grasped. You must work toward enlightenment before that kind of information is revealed to you. When you get it, you will get it. And when you don't get it, you will just argue, paradoxically, forever and ever, and ever--Yet not be a single mindful step any closer to your goal.
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david.sojourn wrote:If you are debating, you are not practicing anything but running the mind and the mouth.

Nobody who debates rebirth will ever get closer to understanding it.

It must be understood through Stream Entry.

The modern world wants to Analyze everything. Intellectually "Figure it out".

It will never work.

You will debate and debate, and just when you're close, plop, someone will have a new argument. Some people will leave the debate stuck to their own notions (Conventions, attachment to ego), and others will only get more and more confused.

My advice is to practice. You won't find anything in this thread except more manure to clutter your mind.

Rebirth cannot be analytically grasped. You must work toward enlightenment before that kind of information is revealed to you. When you get it, you will get it. And when you don't get it, you will just argue, paradoxically, forever and ever, and ever--Yet not be a single mindful step any closer to your goal.
Not everyone is as mature in mind as you believe you are. This kind of talk may help people clear up some of their questions they have surrounding rebirth. You might have answered those questions for yourself in the past. But for others, this is all new. Calling it all manure is pretty one-sided, dontcha think?
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david.sojourn wrote: You won't find anything in this thread except more manure to clutter your mind.
You've read all 252 pages, then ?

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david sojourn wrote: " You won't find anything in this thread except more manure to clutter your mind."
Reminds me of the words we used to sing to the tune of "The Colonel Bogey March":

Bull Sh*t, it makes the grass grow green!"

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But one in whom there is truth, restraint, rectitude, gentleness,self-control, he's called an elder, his impurities disgorged, enlightened.
-Dhammpada, 19, translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu.
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Thank you for that. I always knew I had my uses....

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TheNoBSBuddhist wrote: "Thank you for that. I always knew I had my uses...."
Every being walking The Earth will eventually be consumed by the corrupters and then our brothers and sisters, the plants.

B.S. is nothing more than high quality fertilizer. Plants love it! :tongue:
What Makes an Elder? :
A head of gray hairs doesn't mean one's an elder. Advanced in years, one's called an old fool.
But one in whom there is truth, restraint, rectitude, gentleness,self-control, he's called an elder, his impurities disgorged, enlightened.
-Dhammpada, 19, translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu.
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Rebirth? Really?

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I've been a Buddhist for nearly 6 years and the idea of rebirth seemed perfectly normal to me, even before coming into contact with Buddhism. Lately I've become confused, though. Probably because I don't meditate so much, or at all. I feel that death seems like falling into nothingness. Even if there is rebirth, we can't experience like in the movie Groundhog Day. Why can't we be like: 'Okay, I screwed up my last life, I shouldn't have done this, I should've done that. This life I'll try to do better'?? Wouldn't it be easier? I mean, of course it wouldn't be necessary for us to remember everything from the last life, just a continuation of consciouness would be nice. 'I've died now, wonder how my new life is gonna be....' Then after a bit of early infancy thin memory, it could be... 'Oh, cool. Now I'm French and have two siblings. My parents seem nice.' Does anyone follow me? Why can't it be like Groundhog Day? Things would be kind of awesome. Or maybe not? If that was the case, we could become messed up from so much memories, so much lives... I don't know, I just don't want to fall into the nothing.
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i guess this way nobody would have developed wisdom, you would just learn the correct responses to a limited array of challenges, which means in different circumstances your skills would be useless

when life ever changes there's a possibility and even necessity to develop universal and unconditioned wisdom, so you can respond adequately to any stimulus, basically you learn a principle and not a set of correct responses

your interaction with reality must be creative and not automatic
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Hi cmts,

personally I think it's better that we do get a fresh start each time, and don't recall our previous life. Even just recalling all the pain and distress of this current life is hard enough, without having to also remember the last life as well.
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SN 56.11 wrote:Now this, monks, is the noble truth of stress: Birth is stressful, aging is stressful, death is stressful; sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, & despair are stressful; association with the unbeloved is stressful, separation from the loved is stressful, not getting what is wanted is stressful. In short, the five clinging-aggregates are stressful.
Also, you could try re-examining your conception of death as "falling into the nothing".
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callmetheseeker wrote:I've been a Buddhist for nearly 6 years and the idea of rebirth seemed perfectly normal to me, even before coming into contact with Buddhism. Lately I've become confused, though. Probably because I don't meditate so much, or at all. I feel that death seems like falling into nothingness. Even if there is rebirth, we can't experience like in the movie Groundhog Day. Why can't we be like: 'Okay, I screwed up my last life, I shouldn't have done this, I should've done that. This life I'll try to do better'?? Wouldn't it be easier? I mean, of course it wouldn't be necessary for us to remember everything from the last life, just a continuation of consciouness would be nice. 'I've died now, wonder how my new life is gonna be....' Then after a bit of early infancy thin memory, it could be... 'Oh, cool. Now I'm French and have two siblings. My parents seem nice.' Does anyone follow me? Why can't it be like Groundhog Day? Things would be kind of awesome. Or maybe not? If that was the case, we could become messed up from so much memories, so much lives... I don't know, I just don't want to fall into the nothing.
You're confusing Re-Birth with reincarnation... or rather, wishing re-birth WAS reincarnation, which of course, is quite different...
We do not consider that there is a soul which transmigrates from this place 'to the next' but in Mahayana/Tibetan Buddhism, those considered to be enlightened are able to reincarnate into Tulkus their followers are then charged with finding.

I will tell you how it is with me...

Re-birth is s sticky subject.
Even if it is one of the Buddha's teachings, many people feel more comfortable taking his teaching and applying it to the 'here and now' rather than focusing on it being an event which will take place at the moment of your death.
I will confess, I do not know. I joke with my friends that I will have "work in progress" carved on my head-stone... But this much I do know:
I am a different person every day.
I look at old photographs of when I was a child, and it is the same person, but of course, it isn't.
Over time, I have both physically changed, and of course, mentally I have developed and evolved, and become the person writing this now.
But later on, I may look back on this post, and consider, "Did I write that nonsense? Apparently!"

Every day, I open my eyes, and I am reborn.
The thoughts and actions I performed yesterday no longer exist; they are gone, consigned only to memory, and even that is patchy, because the mind releases and forgets the irrelevant...And so much of how we live, is irrelevant...

The truth of the matter is, you have to make THIS life count.
You have to consign events to memory, but make them meaningful.
You have to live every moment as if it were your last.

Look at this phrase...
I don't know, I just don't want to fall into the nothing.
Do you want to fall into nothing, depressed, morose, concerned about a possible next time, with a mind that says "I wasted so much time wasting time..." or do you want to fall into nothing, serene, content with what you have done, and with a peaceful detached mind that says "if this is it, at least I did my best!".....?

You are constantly creating 'a new life' for yourself with every thought, every action, every inter-action.... the trick is to make sure that each phase leaves you smiling and content.

Live Life as if you ARE coming back. And consider that return, and how wonderful it will be, if you can leave THIS existence with a contented, satisfied smile on your face....
Quit thinking, start doing.

You think you have time - you cold not be more mistaken.


In Theravada, we do not have bardos, Tulkus or reincarnation as a focal point of our practice.
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actually reincarnation and rebirth are simply two different translations of the same pali word, the reason therevada translators use rebirth is to distinguish it from the hindu concept of reincarnation, which they oppose.
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