I'd recommend seeing this topic...Pali Dictionariesviewtopic.php?f=23&t=70
I'll close this topic now and encourage anyone who wishes to provide an insightful reply to your question, to do so in the topic linked to here.
"Do not force others, including children, by any means whatsoever, to adopt your views, whether by authority, threat, money, propaganda, or even education." - Ven. Thich Nhat Hanh
"The uprooting of identity is seen by the noble ones as pleasurable; but this contradicts what the whole world sees." (Snp 3.12)
"You've got to focus on what's really worthwhile in life, which means resisting a lot of the currents in our culture" (Thanissaro)