Goofaholix wrote:As a matter of interest my neices in Thailand all go to a Catholic school. It's not uncommon in Thailand for Buddhist parents to send their children to Catholic schools and not think anything of it, not be worried about their children getting indoctrinated. In Thailand religion is not seen as a black and white thing, people are much more relaxed about religion, they are Buddhist because they are Thai if for no other reason.
Occasionaly they've mixed up Christian and Buddhist terminology but I've never gotten the impression they are becoming any less Buddhist because of their exposure to education with a different world view.
I never thought out religious differences would be an issue until my wife told me last year that she doesn't want me to bring our daughter to the Vihara or to teach her Buddhist teachings. When I met my wife 9 years ago, she was Christian, and I was essentially Buddhist. Until that time, I never thought our religious differences were a problem.
But from the moment she became born-again/extremist/fundamentalist, things have changed. Before that, she even told me a few times she was proud I was Buddhist. Now I am doomed to the Eternal Flames of Hell for not accepting Jesus! (But she recently moderated her position slightly)
I am OK that my daughter receives Christian teachings because her mother is Christian, but I have a problem with fundamentalism, extremism, and generally speaking with the disparaging of rational thinking and investigation. Also, I would agree on one point with Richard Dawkins and Ajahn Brahms: religious indoctrination of children is a form of child abuse, because they are discouraged to think for themselves, enquire and ask questions.
I would also add a little reminder. There are very significant differences of doctrines and behavious between the various Christian denominations. In particular, Catholics and Evanglical Protestants are diametrically opposed to the point that each other consider they are the only "true" Christians and the others are heretics doomed to Hell. So it is wrong to assume that if something is true for Catholics, it must be true also for other Christian denominations and vice-versa.
andre9999 wrote:The people I meet at that church, compared to many of the atheists that I know and am related to, are generally happier, are more caring and loving, and are more giving.
My personal experience is a bit different. I found that the few Christians I know are generally hypocritical and do not uphold their proclaimed values of love and compassion. As for their donations, I think it is generally used to finance the lifestyle of the pastor and his/her immediate entourage. The pastor of my wife's Church has a huge BMW (he may have paid it himself, but he has a very menial job); on the other hand, the Church had to relocate because they had a unpaid bill of GBP5,000 for electricity... Also I think they are a very closed group, they think deeply in terms of "us and them" and tend to meet and do things only within themselves and for themselves (except if it is to evangelise the heathens). I have not seen a single instance where they did some charitable works without trying to convert people.
They seem happier, but when I try to look deeper, I see fear. Essentially fear that their beliefs are wrong. I see also a lot of anxiety: anxiety for signs of their God, anxiety that the Devil will hit them, anxiety when heatens do not believe their Good News when they try to evangelise people. But I might be wrong... I also think that other Christian denominations are probably quite different; it looks to me that at the end of the day, the Catholics are more open (and this obviously make them heretics in the eyes of conservative Christians).
I know people who are Muslim, Atheist, Agnostic, Hindu, Catholic, Evangelical Christian, etc. and what I see is that in all these groups, there are good and bad people, happy and unhappy people, caring and uncaring people, etc. The bottom line is that I think my daughter should be exposed to a variety of beliefs and lifestyles so she can make informed decisions.
With Metta