The purpose of cultivating Metta?

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The purpose of cultivating Metta?

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Hi,

A while back I posted a few questions in this forum, but since abadoned my Dhamma practice for various reasons - I would now like to get back to it and have come back with a few questions about Metta.
The thing is, I don't understand the purpose or motivation behind cultivating an attitude of Metta. How does it lead to Nibbana and how does it fit into the noble eightfold path?
With regards to meditation practice, is it best to always meditate/focus on Metta for all beings, or for individuals or groups with which I as an individual have a problem with?
Is it possible for other beings to be changed by our own practice of Metta? I am thinking of the Ahi Sutta here.

Thanks,

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Hello coyote,

Have a read of these two links. I'd be interested in any comments you care to make after that:

Metta - The Philosophy and Practice of Universal Love by Acharya Buddharakkhita
Contents:
• 1. Introduction
• 1. The Karaniya Metta Sutta
• 2. The Background to the Metta Sutta
• 3. Three Aspects of Metta
• 4. The Ethics of Metta
• 5. The Psychology of Metta
• 6. Meditation on Metta
• 7. The Blessings of Metta
• 8. The Power of Metta
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/auth ... el365.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

The Power of Metta
http://www.dhammawheel.com/viewtopic.php?f=19&t=1643" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

with metta
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Hi Coyote:

Try this.

"Metta as a Path to Awakening." by John Peacock

http://www.audiodharma.org/series/207/talk/2603/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

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My thanks to both of you. Once I have had the chance to read and listen to the links you have both offered I will get back to you.

Coyote.
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Metta directly targets one of the "three fires", namely hatred. It is also one of the hindrances in meditation.

Therefore it is very useful to cultivate metta.
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danieLion wrote:"Metta as a Path to Awakening." by John Peacock

http://www.audiodharma.org/series/207/talk/2603/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

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Thanks Daniel, these have been very helpful. I notice that the speaker recognises that Metta can lead directly to liberation rather than just to a better birth; is he being unorthodox here or is this something that is taught within the Theravada?
reflection wrote:Metta directly targets one of the "three fires", namely hatred. It is also one of the hindrances in meditation.

Therefore it is very useful to cultivate metta.
Here is where my understanding stops - I think it is because I have not had a sufficient grounding in basics such as these - are these "three fires", hatred, ignorance and attachment, the primary chains keeping us in Samasra, and does the threefold division of the noble eightfold path correspond to these "three fires"? Thank you for your explanation, I am having trouble piecing together these concepts in my mind.

Thanks,

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Metta not only works for the benefit of others'.
When you persist with Metta, it generates super strong basis for your meditation advancement as well.
I am not a great meditator but when my Metta meditation is on target (not all the time), the other portion of meditation session (my daily meditation practice for myself) also really gets deeper.
At that point, I can definitely tell that Metta plays very positive role onto my meditation.
It's very difficult to express but when you persist, you will get it.
The same goes for Sila and other training rules/guidelines of the Buddha.
The Buddha did not draw the map to make our life miserable.
All the guidelines are working as the foundation and the reason why he laid them down was because he had compassion for our wellbeing, he wanted us to gain liberation as soon as possible.
The key is persistence.
Also Metta meditation brings opportunities to beat down one's Kilesa head-on.
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Coyote wrote:How does it lead to Nibbana and how does it fit into the noble eightfold path?
It does not lead to nibbana but it is an optional preparative on the path to nibbana in that it counters (neutralizes) hatred/aversion which are hindrances and it may be applied as a conditioned mental abiding if deemed convenient.

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Hello coyote,

This link below provides access to these suttas and articles on Metta:

Metta (goodwill, loving-kindness).
Karaniya Metta Sutta (Discourse on Loving-kindness): Sn 1.8 and Khp 9
As a protection against harm: Cv 5.6, SN 20.5, AN 4.67
As a factor leading to liberation: AN 6.13
Systematic practice of ~: SN 42.8
Eleven benefits of ~: AN 11.16
Even more fruitful than giving: SN 20.4
Course of rebirths to be expected from those who cultivate ~: AN 4.125
Maintain thoughts of ~ no matter how others address you: MN 21
No one is dearer to one than oneself: Ud 5.1
The radiant brightness of ~: Iti 27
As a basis for the development of jhana: AN 8.63
Practicing ~ as a way to deal with annoying people: AN 5.161

Articles:
Metta: The Philosophy and Practice of Universal Love (Buddharakkhita)
"Head & Heart Together: Bringing Wisdom to the Brahma-viharas" (Thanissaro)
The Heart Awakened (Siriwardhana)
Nothing Higher to Live For (Nyanasobhano)
The Power of Good Will (Lee)
Metta Means Goodwill (Thanissaro)
The Practice of Loving-kindness (metta) (Ñanamoli Thera)
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/index-subject.html#metta" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

with metta
Chris
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TMingyur wrote:
Coyote wrote:How does it lead to Nibbana and how does it fit into the noble eightfold path?
It does not lead to nibbana but it is an optional preparative on the path to nibbana in that it counters (neutralizes) hatred/aversion which are hindrances and it may be applied as a conditioned mental abiding if deemed convenient.

Kind regards
Hi Timingyur, Coyote.

It's unorthodox of you consider the Abhidhamma, the commentaries and Buddhagosa orthodox. Otherwise, Peacock's claim is that for the Buddha dwelling with the brahmas is synonymous with awakening. He contrasts this to Buddhagosa's misunderstanding of the brahmaviharas as just a better place in samsara.

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TMingyur wrote:
Coyote wrote:How does it lead to Nibbana and how does it fit into the noble eightfold path?
It does not lead to nibbana but it is an optional preparative on the path to nibbana in that it counters (neutralizes) hatred/aversion which are hindrances and it may be applied as a conditioned mental abiding if deemed convenient.

Kind regards
Hi TMingyur,
The entire Path is optional. I think you've created a false dichotomy between "lead to" and "preparative."
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danieLion wrote:
TMingyur wrote:
Coyote wrote:How does it lead to Nibbana and how does it fit into the noble eightfold path?
It does not lead to nibbana but it is an optional preparative on the path to nibbana in that it counters (neutralizes) hatred/aversion which are hindrances and it may be applied as a conditioned mental abiding if deemed convenient.

Kind regards
Hi TMingyur,
The entire Path is optional.
Then you take my "optional" as one in the sphere of "optional".
danieLion wrote: I think you've created a false dichotomy between "lead to" and "preparative."
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No, not false. You are misunderstanding my words.
"preparative" is called "preparative" in that it only temporarily reduces or removes or suppresses what has to be eliminated permanently. "preparative" means that there is recurrence of what has been reduced or removed or suppressed temporarily.
However "lead to nibbana" stands for eliminating permanently what has to be eliminated permanently.


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danieLion wrote: I think you've created a false dichotomy between "lead to" and "preparative."
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Tmingyur wrote:No, not false. You are misunderstanding my words.
"preparative" is called "preparative" in that it only temporarily reduces or removes or suppresses what has to be eliminated permanently. "preparative" means that there is recurrence of what has been reduced or removed or suppressed temporarily.
However "lead to nibbana" stands for eliminating permanently what has to be eliminated permanently.


Kind regards
Hi TMingyur,
I like your posts. ;)
But, Peacock's contention is that dwelling with the brahmas is just another descriptor for nibbana and that Theravada screwed this up.
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danieLion wrote:But, Peacock's contention is that dwelling with the brahmas is just another descriptor for nibbana and that Theravada screwed this up.
What Peacock contends is up to Peacock. :smile:

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TMingyur wrote:
danieLion wrote:But, Peacock's contention is that dwelling with the brahmas is just another descriptor for nibbana and that Theravada screwed this up.
What Peacock contends is up to Peacock. :smile:

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