Heavens to betsy

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Truly dealing with the truth of change and impermanence can bring great comfort in a time of stress. Knowing that things will pass is a nice reminder. That's what I mean to say :smile:
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Whatever it does, it's so good, a movie was made about it :rofl:

The Coffin


ps. dunno about the spiritual value of the show...but the lead actor is cute! :jumping:
(oops...gotta watch my attachment to sensual pleasures there...heehee)
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i didnt click on the link but ive read the posts so i think i know what youre talking about. a thai guy gets under a sheet and is reborn while monks chant. this is a symbolic ritual. the person being reborn is going through a change in life the ritual helps to "bring it home". probably helps one's resolve much more than a drunken new year's resolution. i think the monks chant abhidhamma stuff as thats whats chanted at funerals in thailand (i think).
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oh i read it, they use coffins not sheets, but i think it's the same ritual.
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Drolma wrote:Truly dealing with the truth of change and impermanence can bring great comfort in a time of stress. Knowing that things will pass is a nice reminder...
Definitely!

From the article:
Jirapat Winarungruang, 37, a lawyer, came one recent day to complete a transformation that he began four years ago when he changed his name from the less auspicious Suthep Wina. His new name includes the suffix rungruang, which means prosperity.

Fifty percent of a person’s destiny is determined by his name, Mr. Jirapat said, and the other 50 percent by his date of birth. When he arose from the coffin, born again, he said, the last vestiges of the old Suthep Wina would be gone.
Sounds like these are symbolic ways of recognizing something that in some sense could be true (is true?) at any given time?

The only potential limitation/drawback here might be that (for most of us) it takes more then name changes and pink coffins to be released from the last vestiges of old illusions...

If some are helped though, wonderful.

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Agreed, Christopher :heart:

Though I'm not overly attached to it, being renamed with a dharma name was significant for me. It was a symbolic outer change that I took to heart. I use my dharma name as I do to remind myself of my precepts and vows. In vajrayana they often give you a name of something you should aspire to. People outside of my religion might think that's a weird thing! But it's not weird to me at all. But these are symbols and have the meaning that we apply to them.
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I would like to add that I get upset when I see blatantly obvious scams, like ridiculously expensive "Big Mind Weekend Seminars" and stuff.

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Hello Drolma,
I get upset when I see blatantly obvious scams, like ridiculously expensive "Big Mind Weekend Seminars" and stuff.
Would this be a good opportunity to look at your own mind states when you think of this? .... shades of dosa and māna
among others?

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Hi Chris,

Conceit and hate? I'm lost...

I appreciate your feedback. I hope I'm not rattling on too much today.

My understanding of what I said about dharma names is that you're given a name with a quality that you're lacking, basically. So it's something I should be trying to develop or cultivate.

:namaste:

edited to add: The name you're given can either be a quality you already exhibit or a quality you need to develop. But the teacher doesn't tell you which it is. So in my case, it was logical to assume that it's something I need to be thinking about and working on developing :smile:
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Somehow I tend to think that Big Mind Seminars, for all their cost and hype, may be a touch more useful that the coffin ritual. But maybe it's just me..

My understanding is that Genpo Roshi was trying to reach out to a particular sort of public with the Big Mind show. And quite possibly for entirely noble motives. I certainly haven't seen any evidence of him driving around in RR and buying big holiday houses.

And as far as I know regular practice at his centre in Salt Lake City is still very accessible for the average Joe wishing to take "the slow and steady" path.

In any case, Big Mind only claims to show a glimpse and serve to entice people to take up practice in earnest.

As for the coffin ritual, yes, if the person involved takes it very seriously and deeply, then it can be somewhat transformative perhaps. Still quite a bit of work tends to be needed to achieve transformation. Sometimes a person has already done a lot of work and a ritual can seal that work and imbue it with confidence and luck. On it's own, it pretty feeble though...

Reminded me of this :
The later Middle Ages saw the growth of considerable abuses, such as the unrestricted sale of indulgences by professional "pardoners"[3] (quaestores in Latin), who were sent to collect contributions to the project. In many cases the preaching of these, out of ignorance or shrewdness, went far beyond dogmatic teachings; some of them even dared to promise that the damned would be released from hell. Permission began to be granted to Catholic kings and princes, particularly on the occasion of Crusades, to retain for themselves a rather considerable part of the alms collected for the gaining of indulgences. The most well-known and debated question is the indulgence granted for building the new St. Peter's Basilica in Rome.[29]
from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indulgence

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Dear Dan,

I was unaware that Big Mind was taken seriously by buddhists. That being the case, my comment was insensitive and I apologize :heart:

I thought Bid Mind essentially promised enlightenment in a weekend ?? I've only read a little about it.
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Ngawang Drolma wrote:Dear Dan,

I was unaware that Big Mind was taken seriously by buddhists. That being the case, my comment was insensitive and I apologize :heart:

I thought Bid Mind essentially promised enlightenment in a weekend ?? I've only read a little about it.
No offense taken, Drolma. :heart:

I don't know much about Big Mind myself, but I do know Genpo Roshi is considered to be a serious teacher. There is too much hype about Big Mind which is certainly disconcerting to many in the Zen community, but I don't think he promised "enlightenment in a weekend" although maybe there was a mention of this by K.Wilber or someone else. The intention of the Big Mind tehnique as I understand it is to loosen the identification with the "small I" and experience a little of the working of the "Big Mind." But it's like dipping the toe in and likely it won't work for everyone.

Personally I am quiet skeptical, but I guess it is beneficial to some extent. And I wouldn't go as far as calling it a hoax because for all I know Genpo's intentions are honourable. But I may be wrong.

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my time in zen was with an old japanese master, we once asked him about Genpo and his responce was "he's the deluded amongst the deluded" he thought Genpo (or at least this method) was a joke.
this isnt the only critisism i've heard of Genpo from zen masters either
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oh and i believe the flyer we showed my teacher had Genpo promising enlightenment in 90mins.... maybe it takes a weekend now?
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He may well be right. I wouldn't know. I do know that he is a dharma heir to Maezumi Roshi, who while not without faults, was considered to be a serious teacher who left a solid legacy (Bernie Glassman, Joko Beck and Daido Loori to name a few). As for the flyer, I'd be interested to see. Sometimes students also get overenthusiastic about their teacher and his methods. What I read Genpo himself write about Big Mind was not so outrageous.

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