No, my husband doesn't know that I talked to my brother. Honestly, I don't know if I should tell him that.TheNoBSBuddhist wrote:Very pleased to know you managed to engage with a family member, on this....kowachka wrote:Thank you everybody for support and help. Just sharing it with you helped me to see a big picture. I know it sounds crazy that I didn't see it before (or didn't want to see and accept it). But situations like that don't happen over night. I am happy to say that I finally opened to my family member, and now I am working on separation plan. I wish my husband well; and if he will need any support I won't turn him back.
Thank you again!!!
Does your Husband know?
Is he aware of your 'separation plan'....?
Could you clarify this...?....and if he will need any support I won't turn him back.
And he is not aware of my separation plan yet. I think it would be smarter if I already had a safe place just because I am not sure about his reaction.
I don't know yet if I will want to stay married, but I hope we'll stay friends. I do care about him but I know that I have to get out of this chaos. I hope he'll get a professional help and I'll be more that happy to give him support. Wise, not idiot compassion.
Ps. I apologize if my writing sometimes doesn't make any spence, English is not my native language.