What do you think?Santi253 wrote:Does it harm children for them to be in time-out with their hands above their head?
Can you put yourself in the shoes of such a child?
What do you think?Santi253 wrote:Does it harm children for them to be in time-out with their hands above their head?
Please tell me what forms of discipline that you think are effective. Is putting children in time-out something that you are against in all circumstances or is it the hands above the head part of it?binocular wrote:What do you think?Santi253 wrote:Does it harm children for them to be in time-out with their hands above their head?
Can you put yourself in the shoes of such a child?
That depends entirely on what the parents want from their child (and why they had the child to begin with).Santi253 wrote:Please tell me what forms of discipline that you think are effective.
I'm not in particular against or for anything, because I think it all depends on what the parents want from their child.Is putting children in time-out something that you are against in all circumstances or is it the hands above the head part of it?
Why are you calling them "Buddhist"? What, specifically, is Buddhist about them, other than being born and raised in a country that is traditionally considered "Buddhist"?Santi253 wrote:I would guess that we are much less strict than many Buddhist parents.
As parents, we follow the secular law of the United States, while practicing a much less strict form of discipline than what's common in many traditionally Buddhist countries.binocular wrote:Why are you calling them "Buddhist"? What, specifically, is Buddhist about them, other than being born and raised in a country that is traditionally considered "Buddhist"?Santi253 wrote:I would guess that we are much less strict than many Buddhist parents.
If someone claims to be Buddhist, I don't usually question whether they are Buddhist or not.binocular wrote:I asked you:
Why are you calling them "Buddhist"?
What, specifically, is Buddhist about them, other than being born and raised in a country that is traditionally considered "Buddhist"?
Someone who's never had children might not be accurately making that conclusion. If I could contact a Buddhist parenting organization located in an Asian country, that would be really great.Bhikkhu Pesala wrote: Skilled parents never spank their children.
Someone who had twenty children might not draw an accurate conclusion either. I meet a lot of parents, and of course I had parents of my own.Santi253 wrote:Someone who's never had children might not be accurately making that conclusion. If I could contact a Buddhist parenting organization located in an Asian country, that would be really great.
I'm asking if you could please connect me with a Buddhist parenting organization.Bhikkhu Pesala wrote:Someone who had twenty children might not draw an accurate conclusion either. I meet a lot of parents, and of course I had parents of my own.Santi253 wrote:Someone who's never had children might not be accurately making that conclusion. If I could contact a Buddhist parenting organization located in an Asian country, that would be really great.
Do you also assume that such a person is also representative of Buddhism?Santi253 wrote:If someone claims to be Buddhist, I don't usually question whether they are Buddhist or not.
Have you actually lived in those countries and seen for yourself how parents treat their children?Santi253 wrote:I would guess that we are much less strict than many Buddhist parents. In Singapore, South Korea, etc., it's common to spank your children with a cane, hanger, feather duster, etc., for not getting the right grade on a test at school. I could never imagine punishing my children for a grade at school, unless they were to fail a class for the entire semester.
Again, how do you know this for sure? Are you just using some random statistics to form your opinions?Santi253 wrote:As parents, we follow the secular law of the United States, while practicing a much less strict form of discipline than what's common in many traditionally Buddhist countries
Have you actually lived in those countries and seen for yourself how parents treat their children?
What he is saying is true. It's normal in asia. This girl in the video apparently even got hanged upside down from a a treeAgain, how do you know this for sure? Are you just using some random statistics to form your opinions?