Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by Sovatthika » Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:39 am

why thailand then. why not sri lanka, myanmar, laos, cambodia,...
if one had already defaulted on their debt and been sued how would it come to public attention or be relevant in any way. sorry if i don't understand... the workings of the world usually just piss me off i would like to keep following dhamma and let things fix themselves
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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by Dhammanando » Thu Oct 26, 2017 8:34 am

Sovatthika wrote:
Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:39 am
why thailand then. why not sri lanka, myanmar, laos, cambodia,...
Regarding the issue of ordaining debtors, I'm afraid I don't know how matters stand in these countries.
Sovatthika wrote:
Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:39 am
if one had already defaulted on their debt and been sued how would it come to public attention or be relevant in any way.
I didn't say that it necessarily would. I was just describing what would happen in Thailand if it did.

In general I think that it would amount to a pretty bad start in monastic life if one ordained in the full knowledge that one had debts of a kind that one could be sued for. As for student debts of the kind where repayment is only required when one is engaged in paid employment and where there is no requirement to pay if one is not earning, these seem to be something of a grey area. As far as I know debts of this kind didn't have any counterpart in the Buddha's time. I think in Thailand most abbots probably would accept a man in this state, but whether it would be agreeable to the man's own conscience is another story.

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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by binocular » Thu Oct 26, 2017 6:01 pm

Sovatthika wrote:
Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:39 am
if one had already defaulted on their debt and been sued how would it come to public attention or be relevant in any way. sorry if i don't understand...
It seems that not returning what was loaned to you is, at least in some cases, a kind of theft.

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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by Sovatthika » Fri Oct 27, 2017 4:08 am

i don't think it is
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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by samseva » Fri Oct 27, 2017 4:48 am

Sovatthika wrote:
Fri Oct 27, 2017 4:08 am
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Sovatthika, from one of your earlier posts, it sounds like your intention is to ordain for life. When you put this into perspective, 4 or so years spent to pay off debts is a very small amount of years for a different way of life that will last maybe as long as 60-70 years.

If you are to evade your debts and ordain, will you not spend those months and years with constant fear of being forced to disrobe and of being deported? Of having to return to the US and of being exactly in the same situation you find yourself right now, of having to pay $20 000 of debt, but with thousands more in interest?

And consider the opposite....

Wouldn't it be better to spend a few years paying off your debt, to ordain with a clear conscience and to live as a monastic without constant fear of being deported? You could also use those few years you are taking to pay your debts to take care of and spend time with your mother, as well as studying and practicing Dhamma—and even improve your back/physical health.

4-5 years out of 60-70 years is a very small amount of years. And paying your debts might be a lot easier than you think. There are a number of very good blogs and books on getting your finances in order and paying your debts (I'm reading one right now).

Here is a blog: http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2012/03/ ... fanciness/
(it tackles debt in a humourous way, as you can see by the name of the blog :smile: )

Anyway, I don't think there is much more I can say to try to convince you otherwise, so I'll leave it at that.

Good luck.

samseva wrote:
Tue Oct 24, 2017 7:41 pm
Sovatthika, if you are serious about efficient solutions/actually paying off your debt, I would look into debt consolidation. You might also want to talk to a financial advisor (the investment might be worth it). You mentioned that you have approximately $20,000 in debt. If you only pay back around $5000 per year, you will have paid it completely within 4-5 years.

If your plan is to ordain, then to some degree, your expenses should be extremely low if you live similarly. You would need to have income, obviously, but that would be the way to go about it. You could get your health back on track during that time as well. Anyway, a financial advisor could probably advise you better.

Take care.

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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by Sovatthika » Fri Oct 27, 2017 8:18 am

alright, thank you. hopefully by the time i'm actually ready to ordain it will be paid
if not, i don't want to let it keep me from ordaining. done all over again, i surely wouldn't have gotten myself into this mess; intention matters i think
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Re: Regarding paying off ALL of ones debts first.

Post by samseva » Fri Oct 27, 2017 8:04 pm

Sovatthika wrote:
Fri Oct 27, 2017 8:18 am
alright, thank you. hopefully by the time i'm actually ready to ordain it will be paid
if not, i don't want to let it keep me from ordaining. done all over again, i surely wouldn't have gotten myself into this mess; intention matters i think
While paying debts is not as difficult as many would think, it also isn't easy—and it doesn't happen overnight/quickly. It takes consistent effort, as well as habit/lifestyle changes.

So don't waste time; starting to plan and tackle that lump of debt as soon as possible will be a really good thing.

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