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by reflection
Mon Oct 21, 2013 6:16 am
Forum: Ordination and Monastic Life
Topic: sleeping in forest monasteries
Replies: 9
Views: 3007

Re: sleeping in forest monasteries

Well, it is something you can worry about or it is something you just try. Not really much use wondering about it I'd say. And since Buddhism is also about worrying less, that attitude is also a great practice. :tongue:
by reflection
Mon Oct 21, 2013 6:12 am
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: What do you guys think about my understanding of kamma?
Replies: 9
Views: 2515

Re: What do you guys think about my understanding of kamma?

What are you building your understanding upon? Our understanding of kamma should not come though intellectually trying to grasp it, because we will not be able to see it that way. You end up in mechanical ways of thinking as the example you are describing. Kamma doesn't work that way, it's not reall...
by reflection
Sun Oct 20, 2013 2:40 pm
Forum: Ordination and Monastic Life
Topic: sleeping in forest monasteries
Replies: 9
Views: 3007

Re: sleeping in forest monasteries

I think this is all too generalized. Often there can be building / repair work, gardening also especially for lay people. And don't forget kitchen work can be quite tiring as well, cooking all morning, washing up, cleaning the kitchen etc. But on the other side also the little hours of sleep is not ...
by reflection
Sat Oct 19, 2013 11:09 am
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Are there any MP3 Dhamma Teaching with background music?
Replies: 17
Views: 4172

Re: Are there any MP3 Dhamma Teaching with background music?

Those meditations are not really Buddhist then. You won't hear those kind of things in retreat centers or monasteries for example. Meditation is to take the mind inside, not to take it outside by listening to music. Then it is not meditation, but simply listening to music... Perhaps try to live with...
by reflection
Wed Oct 16, 2013 11:57 am
Forum: Wellness, Diet & Fitness
Topic: getting my water from rice or pasta ?
Replies: 30
Views: 11509

Re: getting my water from rice or pasta ?

If your rice can hold 2 liters of water I would consider eating less rice.. and drinking more. I mean, that'd be about 3 kg of cooked rice then if not more. That's insane. So I think you are overestimating how much water is in your rice. Just drink more. I don't see why not.
by reflection
Mon Oct 14, 2013 10:11 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: What am I going to do with my life?
Replies: 9
Views: 2537

Re: What am I going to do with my life?

Sometimes you can get very much get caught up in thinking about the future. Trying to get it all planned out, on what you are going to do, on what you are going to be. But look and ask around to see how many people ended up exactly how they planned. You will find most are not. There are so many fact...
by reflection
Sat Oct 12, 2013 10:31 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Ticks and fleas
Replies: 100
Views: 18897

Re: Ticks and fleas

Some already said similar things, but I guess it can't hurt to see some more views. In my eyes the precepts are not black and white. They are guidelines for our behavior. What karma comes down to eventually is not a defined line, but our intention. So while in one case a particular action is not goo...
by reflection
Sat Oct 12, 2013 5:33 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: non self
Replies: 9
Views: 1716

Re: non self

I get the idea that you try to understand 'nonself' by trying to understand self. But self is not one thing or one view even. It is a collection of different views that people can have and so you can't really understand it as a fixed thing. For example, the idea of being in control of something is p...
by reflection
Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:02 pm
Forum: Theravāda for Beginners
Topic: Rebirth
Replies: 22
Views: 6946

Re: Rebirth

It means quite literally what it says: that rebirth ends, means there is no more next birth. Hi reflection I don't agree. There literalism seems to neglect the Buddha's teaching on Dependent Origination and on compassion toward people. The usual phrase is "no more coming to any state of being....
by reflection
Tue Oct 08, 2013 2:38 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Monks and Money; trying to figure out my feelings...
Replies: 26
Views: 8095

Re: Monks and Money; trying to figure out my feelings...

Always easy to judge others, that's one thing. Especially if we don't observe their rules ourselves. But it's also very difficult to get by in today's society without money. Think of things like transport and so. In monasteries without money there is always a lot of arrangements with who drives who ...
by reflection
Mon Oct 07, 2013 6:50 pm
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: How to distinguish consciousness and perception?
Replies: 54
Views: 14165

Re: How to distinguish consciousness and perception?

I think the MN43 quote is not that you can't understand some differences between perception and consciousness, but that you can't have one without the other. No painting without canvas, that sort of idea. I broadly agree, but I don't think there is a mutual dependence - I'd say that perception depe...
by reflection
Sun Oct 06, 2013 5:55 pm
Forum: Theravāda for Beginners
Topic: Rebirth
Replies: 22
Views: 6946

Re: Rebirth

Hi, It means quite literally what it says: that rebirth ends, means there is no more next birth. So no more birth, no more being, no more suffering. Seems like a very saddening end to a spiritual path, but understanding it is the highest happiness, that's part of why the Buddha's teachings are so ha...
by reflection
Sat Oct 05, 2013 9:35 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Looking for answers!
Replies: 8
Views: 1355

Re: Looking for answers!

Hi! First off all I want to say I recognize your feeling. Luckily, many Buddhist centers and monasteries that can take you up from anywhere ranging from a day till possibly your entire life. There are many in the US, also. If you are in a point of your life where you are able to visit one for a cons...
by reflection
Sat Oct 05, 2013 4:09 pm
Forum: General Theravāda Meditation
Topic: Frustrations.
Replies: 15
Views: 4348

Re: Frustrations.

Meditation shouldn't be about trying, figuring out, about controlling and interfering. It is about letting things be. The mind is restless and frustrated? Fine, let it be. Exactly that attitude is what gets it to cool down. Every time you force or try the mind into some position, you sort of create ...
by reflection
Wed Oct 02, 2013 12:35 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Very sick relative
Replies: 13
Views: 3519

Re: Very sick relative

I'm sorry to hear. But I wouldn't present your ideas about this to him. People live their own lives and die their own death. Where they'll go and what they'll do is not up to us to know or mingle with. It is determined by acts from the past. I think it's better to look at your own feelings. Why do y...