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by befriend
Fri Oct 26, 2018 11:09 pm
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Christian prayer as skillful means
Replies: 15
Views: 3416

Christian prayer as skillful means

I get a lot of healing through saying the Hail Mary and find it useful to talk to God or Jesus. I will always believe in kamma vipaka. But am wondering if it's ethically alright to use talking to God and chanting our fathers and Hail Marys. It does help me. And because of my illness I cannot do Budd...
by befriend
Tue Oct 23, 2018 12:34 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Upholding metta sutta
Replies: 8
Views: 1468

Re: Upholding metta sutta

Thanks friends I get confused a lot about Buddhist practice theory.
by befriend
Mon Oct 22, 2018 10:53 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Upholding metta sutta
Replies: 8
Views: 1468

Re: Upholding metta sutta

My intention should be to reduce hate.
by befriend
Mon Oct 22, 2018 10:28 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Upholding metta sutta
Replies: 8
Views: 1468

Re: Upholding metta sutta

Is this tanha or Chanda? Is craving for spiritual happiness wholesome? I also do mindfulness.
by befriend
Mon Oct 22, 2018 10:25 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Upholding metta sutta
Replies: 8
Views: 1468

Upholding metta sutta

Chanting the karaniya metta sutta for a few hours a day makes me happy, is it wrong practice to chant the metta sutta because it makes me happy? It also makes me friendlier and gives my mind something wholesome to do in my spare time. And obviously reduces hatred in my conciousness.
by befriend
Mon Oct 22, 2018 5:32 pm
Forum: Theravāda for Beginners
Topic: How being a Theravada buddhist monk is not nihilistic and life-denying?
Replies: 21
Views: 6209

Re: How being a Theravada buddhist monk is not nihilistic and life-denying?

Monks are life affirming and Mara denying. You can't take music with you when you die.
by befriend
Tue Sep 25, 2018 5:33 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Best metta teachers, talks and guided meditations?
Replies: 12
Views: 4936

Re: Best metta teachers, talks and guided meditations?

You could chant the karaniya metta sutta.
by befriend
Fri Sep 21, 2018 6:49 pm
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Buddhism is radically diffrent from other relegions is a wishful thnking?
Replies: 36
Views: 6281

Re: Buddhism is radically diffrent from other relegions is a wishful thnking?

All religions are like different cars all moving in the same direction people who don't see it like that have no light in their hearts- Ajahn chah. we have to remember Christianity Islam were founded after Buddhas life. In the bible it says be still and know that I am God. That sounds like choiceles...
by befriend
Fri Sep 21, 2018 12:51 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Discouraging and Encouraging Bhikkhuni Ordination
Replies: 61
Views: 9340

Re: Discouraging and Encouraging Bhikkhuni Ordination

Even if buddha was reluctant to ordain women, after ananda reminded him that gotami was his wet nurse and helped be his maternal caregiver buddha said under 8 conditions a woman can ordain so we should always fall in line with what buddha decides.
by befriend
Thu Sep 20, 2018 4:16 pm
Forum: Theravāda for Beginners
Topic: Gender and the Sakyadhita
Replies: 30
Views: 8456

Re: Gender and the Sakyadhita

Read the gotami sutta. Sutta 51 in anguttara nikaya it talks about female ordination and what they must do to be a monastic.
by befriend
Thu Sep 20, 2018 12:42 pm
Forum: Vipassanā / Satipaṭṭhāna Bhāvana
Topic: Clear Comprehending
Replies: 19
Views: 5851

Re: Clear Comprehending

in meditation clear comprehension is knowing one of the five hindrances in a experiential way seeing it intamitely and staying with that intimacy when I do this the hindrance leaves on its own because I've experienced the pain of it.
by befriend
Fri Sep 14, 2018 5:14 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Finding quiet living conditions as a householder
Replies: 17
Views: 3171

Re: Finding quiet living conditions as a householder

Irritation to sound is a good meditation object it's aversion watch the aversion pass and sound won't bother you.
by befriend
Tue Sep 04, 2018 10:59 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Dana and Social Responsibility in a World of Finite Resources
Replies: 4
Views: 906

Re: Dana and Social Responsibility in a World of Finite Resources

volunteering doesn't require money as long as it doesn't drain your zeal at work or take away from hours at work.
by befriend
Fri Aug 31, 2018 3:54 pm
Forum: Vipassanā / Satipaṭṭhāna Bhāvana
Topic: I am walking
Replies: 16
Views: 5334

Re: I am walking

:anjali:
by befriend
Fri Aug 31, 2018 2:05 pm
Forum: Dhammaduta (Dhamma propagation)
Topic: Should people be exhorted/persuaded to practice the Dhamma at all?
Replies: 11
Views: 5058

Re: Should people be exhorted/persuaded to practice the Dhamma at all?

its good enough to establish your friends and family in generosity.