Suffering, revulsion, loathsomeness

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I appreciate that there is difficulty in translating from Pali. However these words seem very loaded and for me imply an emotional engagement with things that seems just the opposite of dispassion, observation of the way things are without judgement, letting things that arise naturally pass away again. I appreciate that I see these things arise in my mind, but do not see a need to hang on to them - or make them a special subject of contemplation. Perhaps these as contemplations are a sort of antidote to attachment to passing pleasure - to be used like medicine when necessary?
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You raise interesting and important questions. I am not sure if this is the appropriate section this discussion, but don't worry about that. If needs be, we will move as is appropriate.
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Dukkha is a big problem, the thing to solve. If we would translate it with 'unsatisfactory' for example, this message may get lost a bit. But likewise, in some situations people will also misinterpret the word suffering. So what's wise?

The thing is, you'll never find accurate words to describe reality, no matter how long you try. Also if it is Pali, it still is wrong. So we could try many translations until we find one that we think suits, but still don't understand what it means. However, I think the usual translations still get quite close. During the practice we also learn more about them. When we learn how deeply suffering is ingrained within existence, the term starts to have more meaning. When you see happiness is also suffering, the term 'revulsion' also gets its strength, although it is another kind of revulsion people usually think off.

But in the end we don't need words. You can imagine how it feels like to have an ache, but now try to explain it to others.. You just won't find the words. Same with the Dhamma. The more we learn, the more we see it is not suitable to put into words.
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Thanks - yes I can see that to get bogged down with words is to miss the point - and could even lead to a sort of dogmatic insistence just because it is 'in the book'. So to practice with openness to the rise and fall of 'things' - and let some sort of 'wisdom' emerge might be the way. Maybe to consciously remind oneself to be aware of others' suffering may be a good thing?
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norman wrote:I appreciate that there is difficulty in translating from Pali. However these words seem very loaded and for me imply an emotional engagement with things that seems just the opposite of dispassion, observation of the way things are without judgement, letting things that arise naturally pass away again.
Perhaps it is only a matter of perception and conditioning for you. You're perception of these words and the way you associate with them (i.e. the way your mind has become conditioned by them), for some reason (however consciously or unconsciously you may be aware of these processes), causes emotion to arise.

For some (like myself) the idea of revulsion or loathsomeness just points toward the vedana of "unpleasantness." If one is mindful, the observation of unpleasantness does not have to develop into an emotional response. Have you discovered the source of your emotions? Has that insight hit you yet?

Perhaps you need to develop your observation of these processes more keenly, more deeply in order to get to the bottom of them to see them for what they are. Perhaps seeing them for what they are will help in dispelling the emotional hangup. The emotion arising is dependent on a sense of self, it is not? And isn't the view that there is a self to become affected a wrong view? From there, it seems like only a short jump to becoming dispassionate about a phenomenon. To letting them arise and pass away without judgment or attachment. What do you think?
norman wrote: I appreciate that I see these things arise in my mind, but do not see a need to hang on to them - or make them a special subject of contemplation. Perhaps these as contemplations are a sort of antidote to attachment to passing pleasure - to be used like medicine when necessary?
And perhaps you have found the answer to your own question.
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I must admit that I was a bit disappointed when Ven. Bodhi adopted "revulsion" for his rendering of nibbidá in his more recent translations. But Ven. Ñanamoli lists it as an alternative rendering in his Technical Pali Dictionary, so there is probably some justification for it. Under the influence of French existentialism Ven. Ñanamoli seems to have prefered "estrangement" as a rendering, which to me seems subtle, but a little too weak. I prefer "disillusionment".
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Thanks very much IanAnd - that is really helpful. I watch emotions rise and fall but see no source - and indeed sense them like a sort of 'atmosphere' whose root I do not see or whose nature is unclear, although they usually connect to something tangible like an unsettling thought, or perhaps the taste of a good espresso or just the neutral pressure of a cushion. This isn't a problem - just interesting.
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"Revulsion" has gradually changed its meaning and has become in popular usage more like repugnance, or being revolted by something. Etymologically, it originally meant a turning or pulling away of the will. It would be good if we could keep a single noun that had this sense, and perhaps Bhikkhu Bodhi had this meaning in mind. But language changes, and I suspect this one has now long gone the way of terms like "refute" and "disinterested".
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norman wrote:I watch emotions rise and fall but see no source - and indeed sense them like a sort of 'atmosphere' whose root I do not see or whose nature is unclear, although they usually connect to something tangible like an unsettling thought, or perhaps the taste of a good espresso or just the neutral pressure of a cushion.
Have you looked into the practical aspects of satipatthana practice?

The four establishments of mindfulness, as I am fond of translating the word, as this tells you exactly what is needing to be done: that is, establishing mindfulness of the body, feeling (vedana), mind states (like awareness of states of anger or non-anger, happiness, sadness, distractedness, lust and non-lust, delusion and non-delusion etcetera), and mind objects (or mental phenomena). This is not easy, but it can be done. If need be, take it one step at a time. Eventually, mindfulness of all four will fall into place.

For instance, I recall having experienced bodily pain as "this is me, this I am, this is myself" — oh woe is me to have to undergo this pain. I connected the pain with mySELF, my sense of self, rather than just the body. Once I realized that the pain belonged ONLY to the body, I stopped causing myself pain (dukkha) and dissatisfaction. I stopped "feeling" sorry for myself for having to be in pain, and let the pain exist outside myself. That way, it stopped being a distraction, and I could focus on attending to ways to relieve the pain rather than just immersing myself in the pain and becoming helpless. It became a way of confronting the pain directly and at the same time releasing the pain from effecting the way I dealt with enduring it. I developed equanimity in response to the pain.

See if you cannot do the same.

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Thanks for pointing me to this IanAnd. I had seen this before but not really absorbed it: it seems to first recommend getting a clear view of the body, feelings and consciousness - not to force change on them but 'to the extent necessary just for knowledge and remembrance'. With mental objects there are additional things to see - for example 'he understands how the arising of the non-arisen enlightenment factor of calm comes to be and how the completion by culture of the arisen enlightenment factor of calm comes to be' - to see clearly what is conducive to the abandonment of the 'fetters' and the culture of the 'factors of enlightenment'. I'm not clear what a 'painful feeling' is really though: if I feel a sudden physical pain (for example last night I splashed some hot fat onto my hand) within a few moments it doesn't seem actually painful as such but rather a particular physical feeling in a certain place - equanimity in the face of pain perhaps - but really it seems that the pain that distresses is gone leaving just a not-unpleasant hot or stinging sensation. Consciousness /mind-state seems to me much harder to 'see' - it seems fugitive and to change/disappear so fast that I really just remember it afterwards. Anyway - I've probably wandered off-topic. I think I could do worse than just to take this sutta as a guide.
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Norman

Just to add (from http://www.dhammawiki.com/index.php?title=Dhamma" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;) - I find this a real encouragement that it is possible in this life:
Anguttara Nikaya 11.12 The Six qualities of the Dhamma:
1. Svakkhato: The Dhamma is not a speculative philosophy, but is the Universal Law found through enlightenment and is preached precisely. Therefore it is Excellent in the beginning (Sila: Moral principles), Excellent in the middle (Samadhi: Concentration) and Excellent in the end (Panna: Wisdom),
2. Sanditthiko: The Dhamma is testable by practice and known by direct experience,
3. Akaliko: The Dhamma is able to bestow timeless and immediate results here and now, for which there is no need to wait until the future or next existence.
4. Ehipassiko: The Dhamma welcomes all beings to put it to the test and to experience it for themselves.
5. Opaneyiko: The Dhamma is capable of being entered upon and therefore it is worthy to be followed as a part of one's life.
6. Paccattam veditabbo vinnunhi: The Dhamma may be perfectly realized only by the noble disciples who have matured and enlightened enough in supreme wisdom.
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IanAnd wrote:The emotion arising is dependent on a sense of self, it is not?
I don't think so. There is no self that was mentioned in the dependent origination, only ignorance. This was defined by the Buddha as an ignorance of the four noble truths, none of which mentions self either.

As for the right view... all dhammas are non-self.
And isn't the view that there is a self to become affected a wrong view?
This is nihilism, also a wrong view.
From there, it seems like only a short jump to becoming dispassionate about a phenomenon.
I think that's annihilationism... it is not effective as a practice, according to the Buddha.

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For me right now 'to be' means to be detected by my senses - here and now, and with some confidence that comes from the memory of repetition and 'triangulation' (more than one sense, corroboration by other people, part of a cause-and-effect sequence etc). In that sense this 'self' that is me is - right here, right now: it can suffer and feel joy etc. Much further than this I would rather not speculate as it would just build a mountain of words. It (the self, 'me') seems just like the rest of nature - it comes to be, lasts a while / changes, disappears. I don't really want to 'feel' less - to sort of duck out of the range of experiences being alive offers, or to manipulate those feelings. To be able to see them appear and disappear does seem to of itself produce a sort of calm and happiness that is not dependant on external things - and to take away some of the fear which comes from having to defend that little 'self', and perhaps reduces the need to exploit others in that defence. I like the sutta mentioned above as it suggests a method of development which (in my view) is designed to increase awareness without using rational argument to 'win' a point and persuade.
Thanks all for your advice
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norman wrote:I appreciate that there is difficulty in translating from Pali. However these words seem very loaded and for me imply an emotional engagement with things that seems just the opposite of dispassion, observation of the way things are without judgement, letting things that arise naturally pass away again. I appreciate that I see these things arise in my mind, but do not see a need to hang on to them - or make them a special subject of contemplation. Perhaps these as contemplations are a sort of antidote to attachment to passing pleasure - to be used like medicine when necessary?
The Pali terms for these are Dukkha, Nibbida, and Asubha.

Dukkha can encompass a whole spectrum of meanings. At one end it refers to full fledged suffering, and at the other, it simply means that something is unable to grant satisfaction. I personally prefer to translate it as unsatisfactoriality although I don't think that is an official english word.

Nibbida just means disenchantment. When you develop disenchantment towards something, you lose interest and craving in it. Revulsion is a mistranslation.

The last word, Asubha, I have seen translated other ways too. I think in a lecture the Ven. Bhikkhu Bodhi mentioned that he actually prefers to understand it as meaning unattractiveness rather than loathsomeness and I tend to agree.

I hope that helps.
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Bakmoon wrote: Nibbida just means disenchantment. When you develop disenchantment towards something, you lose interest and craving in it.

Disenchantment is a nice rendering for nibbidá.
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norman wrote:For me right now 'to be' means to be detected by my senses - here and now, and with some confidence that comes from the memory of repetition and 'triangulation' (more than one sense, corroboration by other people, part of a cause-and-effect sequence etc). In that sense this 'self' that is me is - right here, right now: it can suffer and feel joy etc. Much further than this I would rather not speculate as it would just build a mountain of words. It (the self, 'me') seems just like the rest of nature - it comes to be, lasts a while / changes, disappears. I don't really want to 'feel' less - to sort of duck out of the range of experiences being alive offers, or to manipulate those feelings. To be able to see them appear and disappear does seem to of itself produce a sort of calm and happiness that is not dependant on external things - and to take away some of the fear which comes from having to defend that little 'self', and perhaps reduces the need to exploit others in that defense.

Congratulations, Norman. You are tremendously ahead of the game if, by the insight you express here, you are able to live according to those parameters. If so, you have penetrated the essence of the Dhamma.
norman wrote: I like the sutta mentioned above as it suggests a method of development which (in my view) is designed to increase awareness without using rational argument to 'win' a point and persuade.
If you enjoyed that sutta (the Satipatthana Sutta), I have another for you that will definitely test the insight you have gained. It is called the Bahiya Sutta in the volume called the Udana from the Khuddaka Nikaya, which contains (depending on whose definition you adhere to for the volumes contained in this Pitaka) 15 or 18 shorter volumes of discourses. I won't spoil it for you. Read through it and see if you don't understand it instantly.

It is unfortunate that this online version doesn't contain a very helpful footnote that can be found in the physical published version (which book I happen to have) by John Ireland to the following passage:

"When, Bahiya, for you in the seen is merely what is seen... in the cognized is merely what is cognized, then, Bahiya, you will not be 'with that.' When, Bahiya, you are not 'with that,' then, Bahiya, you will not be 'in that.' When, Bahiya, you are not 'in that,' then, Bahiya, you will be neither here nor beyond nor in between the two. Just this is the end of suffering." *

The footnote follows:

* This is a difficult passage. An explanation of it derived from the Comy. would be something like this: "In the seen is merely what is seen" without adding one's own views, opinions, concepts, personal likes and dislikes, etc.: that is, just seeing what is there as it actually is. "You will not be with what," bound by that view, by attraction or repulsion, etc. "You will not be in that" situation of being deluded and led astray by views and emotions. "You will be neither here nor beyond nor in between the two": neither in this world nor another world. This means the experience of Nibbana or enlightenment, which is a stepping out of the mundane world.
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