Watching the silence in the mind

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Watching the silence in the mind

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Hello everyone, i have a question about meditation. At present I am having success with my meditatoons (success being not great but better than my average)..
i do this by letting go and observing the solence in my mind... when I feel my mind agitated or action starts up i try let go as soon as possible and back to observing the silence

i ise this technique as opposed to the breath because i have never in 5 years of meditating had any wiccess with my breath.. i mean seriously no success, i lose it within seconds and my mind wanders off for minites at a time.

with this mind watching technique i have a bit of success and silence appears and prolongs.... my question is, this isnt really standard or a Buddhist teaching, so where do i go from here? Is this technique tried and tested by anyone well known or am i potentially wasting my time for the sake of a quiet mind that wont progress beyond that?

With metta.. Anthony
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Yes. I also prefer to watch mind status rather than breathing.Whatever obvious to focus is valid for meditation. Sometime, breathing and sometime, mind status. It is right there in maha sattipathana sutta, which can be divided into four parts: body, feeling, mind, dhamma. Breathing meditation is part of body meditation. For more info, go to assesstoinsight and search maha sattipathana.
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anthbrown84 wrote:Hello everyone, i have a question about meditation. At present I am having success with my meditatoons (success being not great but better than my average)..
i do this by letting go and observing the silence in my mind... when I feel my mind agitated or action starts up i try let go as soon as possible and back to observing the silence [...]
When you cultivate mindfulness using the silence and non-silence or stillness and activity of the mind as the object of awareness you're starting to practice mindfulness of mind, which is one of the Four Foundations of Mindfulness.


III - Contemplation of the Mind (State of Consciousness)

What is the state of mind? Is it with lust or without? With hatred or without? With delusion or without? Is it shrunken? Is it distracted? Is it developed or undeveloped? Is it surpassable or unsurpassable? Is it Is it concentrated or scattered? Is it freed or bound?

This refers to the "background" of mind, the basic level or tone of conscious awareness that is present.

The Four Foundations of Mindfulness - Ajahn Punnadhammo. Arrow River Forest Hermitage

Silence, stillness, agitation, are all qualities of mind to be aware of.

Something else to keep in mind --

The Importance of
Wise Reflection in Meditation by Steve Weissman
Rain soddens what is covered up,
It does not sodden what is open.
Therefore uncover what is covered
That the rain will not sodden it.
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Silence or stillness is an excellent thing to watch. It is from a place of silence that one can observe what moves the mind. It is the perfect place for watching the arising and ceasing of phenomena such as thoughts and feelings. This is knowing that all conditioned phenomena are impermanent, sabbe sankhara anicca. That is developing insight wisdom. This is taking the position of Buddho(knowing) in the Thai tradition.
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Check out the teachings of Luang Pour Sumedho:
When your mind is quiet, listen, and you can hear that vibrational sound in the mind – ‘the sound of silence.’ What is it? Is it an ear sound, or is it an outward sound? Is it the sound of the mind or the sound of the nervous system, or what? Whatever it is, it’s always there, and it can be used in meditation as something to turn toward.

Recognizing that all that arises passes away, we begin to look at that which doesn’t arise or pass, and is always there. If you start trying to think about that sound, have a name for it, or claim any kind of attainments from it, then of course you are using it in the wrong way. It’s merely a standard to refer to when you’ve reached the limit of the mind, and the end of the mind as far as we can observe it. So from that position you
can begin to watch. You can think and still hear that sound (if you’re thinking deliberately, that is), but once you’re lost in thought, then you forget it and you don’t hear it any more. So if you get lost in thought, then once you’re aware that you’re thinking again, turn to that sound, and listen to it for a long time.

Where before you’d get carried away by emotions or obsessions or the hindrances that arise, now you can practice by gently, very patiently reflecting on the particular condition of the mind as anicca, dukkha, anattā, and then letting go of it. It’s a gentle, subtle letting go, not a slam-bang rejection
of any condition. So the attitude, the right understanding is more important than anything else. Don’t make anything out of that sound of silence. People get excited, thinking they’ve attained something, or discovered something, but that in itself is another condition you create around the silence. This is a very cool practice, not an exciting one; use it skilfully and gently for letting go, rather than for holding onto a view that you’ve attained something! If there’s anything that blocks someone in their meditation, it’s the view that they’ve
attained something from it!

Now, you can reflect on the conditions of the body and mind and concentrate on them. You can sweep through the body and recognize sensations, such as the vibrations in the hands or feet, or you can concentrate on any point in your body. Feel the sensation of the tongue in the mouth,
touching the palate, or the upper lip on top of the lower one, or just bring into the consciousness the sensation of wetness of the mouth, or the pressure of the clothes on your body – just those subtle sensations that we don’t bother to notice. Reflecting on these subtle physical sensations, concentrate on them and your body will relax. The human body likes to be noticed. It appreciates being concentrated on in a gentle and peaceful way, but if you’re inconsiderate and hate the body, it really starts becoming quite unbearable. Remember we have to live within this structure for the rest of our lives. So you’d better learn how to live in it with a good attitude. You say, ‘Oh, the body doesn’t matter, it’s just a disgusting thing, gets old, gets sick and dies. The body doesn’t matter, it’s the mind that counts.’ That attitude is quite common amongst Buddhists! But it actually takes patience to concentrate on your body, other than out of vanity. Vanity is a misuse of the human body, but this sweeping awareness is skilful. It’s not to enforce a sense of ego, but simply an act of goodwill and consideration for a living body – which is not you anyway.

So your meditation now is on the five khandhā and the emptiness of the mind. Investigate them until you fully understand that all that arises passes away and is not-self. Then there’s no grasping of anything as being oneself, and you are free from that desire to know yourself as a quality or a
substance. This is liberation from birth and death.

This path of wisdom is not one of developing concentration to get into a trance state, get high and get away from things. You have to be very honest about intention. Are we meditating to run away from things? Are we trying to get into a state where we can suppress all thoughts? This
wisdom practice is a very gentle one of allowing even the most horrible thoughts to appear, and let them go. You have an escape hatch, it’s like a safety valve where you can let off the steam when there’s too much pressure. Normally, if you dream a lot, then you can let off steam in sleep. But no wisdom comes from that, does it? That is just like being a dumb animal; you develop a habit of doing something and then getting exhausted, then crashing out, then getting up, doing something and crashing out again. But this path is a thorough investigation and an understanding of the limitations of the mortal condition of the body and mind. Now you’re developing the ability to turn away from the conditioned and
to release your identity from mortality.

You’re breaking through that illusion that you’re a mortal thing – but I’m not telling you that you’re an immortal creature either, because you’ll start grasping at that, and you might start thinking, ‘My true nature is one with the Deathless, timeless eternity of bliss.’ But you notice that the Buddha
refrained from using phrases that would get us attached to our ideas of an Ultimate Truth. We can get very starry-eyed
when we start using terms and phrases such as these.

It’s actually more skillful to watch that tendency to want to name or conceive what is inconceivable, to be able to tell somebody else, or describe it just to feel that you have attained something. It is more important to watch that than to follow it. Not that you haven’t realized anything, either,
but be that careful and that vigilant not to attach to that realization, because if you do, of course this will just take you to despair again.

If you do get carried away, as soon as you realize you got carried away, then stop. Certainly don’t go round feeling guilty about it or being discouraged, but just stop that. Calm down, let go, let go of it. You notice that religious people have insights, and they get very glassy-eyed. Born-again Christians are just aglow with this fervor. Very impressive, too! I must admit, it’s very impressive to see people so radiant.
But in Buddhism, that state is called ‘saññā-vipallāsa’ – ‘meditation madness.’ When a good teacher sees you’re in that state, he puts you in a hut out in the woods and tells you not to go near anyone! I remember I went like that in Nong Khai the first year before I went to Ajahn Chah, I thought I
was fully enlightened, just sitting there in my hut. I knew everything in the world, understood everything. I was just so radiant, and … but I didn’t have anyone to talk to. I couldn’t speak Thai, so I couldn’t go and hassle the Thai monks. But the British Consul from Vientiane happened to come over one day, and somebody brought him to my hut … and I really let him have it, double barrelled! He sat there in a stunned
state, and, being English, he was very, very polite, but every time he got up to go I wouldn’t let him. I couldn’t stop, it was like Niagara Falls, this enormous power coming out, and there was no way I could stop it myself. Finally he left, made an escape somehow: I never saw him again, I wonder why …

So when we go through that kind of experience, it’s important to recognize it. It’s nothing dangerous if you know what it is. Be patient with it, don’t believe it or indulge in it. You notice Buddhist monks never go around saying much about what ‘level of enlightenment’ they have – it’s just not to
be related. When people ask us to teach, we don’t teach about our enlightenment, but about the Four Noble Truths as the way for them to be enlightened. Nowadays there are all kinds of people claiming to be enlightened or Maitreya Buddhas, avatars, and all have large followings; people are willing to believe that quite easily! But this particular emphasis of the Buddha is on recognizing the way things are rather than believing in what other people tell us, or say. This is a path of wisdom, in which we’re exploring or investigating the limits of the mind. Witness and see: ‘sabbe saṅkhārā aniccā,’ ‘all conditioned phenomena are impermanent;’ ’sabbe dhammā anattā,’ ‘all things are not-self.’
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Liberation is the inevitable fruit of the path and is bound to blossom forth when there is steady and persistent practice. The only requirements for reaching the final goal are two: to start and to continue. If these requirements are met there is no doubt the goal will be attained. This is the Dhamma, the undeviating law.

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It’s good to get interested in silence of mind as long as you don’t attach to it or equate silence with successful meditation and mental activity with failure. Silence could indicate dullness or disinterest.

If you are also aware of mental activity, the breathing, sounds, and body sensations then recognising silence is a very good thing, If you are not aware of those things then I think you’re probably craving to be in a black hole of nothingness, which is not the practice.
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There is the silence, the absence of silence and the knowing of this. Stay with the knowing(Buddho).

There is no "successful" or "unsuccessful" meditation. "Success" feels this way, "non success" feels that way and the knowing that all conditions are impermanent and is not self. Don't be the meditator. Just stay with the knowing.
And what is right speech? Abstaining from lying, from divisive speech, from abusive speech, & from idle chatter: This is called right speech.
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I am following the Joseph Goldstein's Satipatthana instruction.
So I recommend it to you as well

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anthbrown84 wrote:with this mind watching technique i have a bit of success and silence appears and prolongs.... my question is, this isnt really standard or a Buddhist teaching, so where do i go from here? Is this technique tried and tested by anyone well known or am i potentially wasting my time for the sake of a quiet mind that wont progress beyond that?

With metta.. Anthony
This is a perfectly acceptable kind of meditation. As other members have said, this is Cittanupassana, or contemplation of the mind. Make sure that when you are sitting in meditation you aren't just sitting in silence, but you are actually aware of what is going on in your mind. Shift your attention to different aspects of how the mind feels. Watch the feeling of stillness, and compare it to how the mind feels when thoughts arise. Pay attention to how the feeling of peace is ever so slightly different from one moment from the next. In one moment it might feel slightly stale, and then it might shift. Sometimes the peace is like a gentle sinking feeling, while at other times the mind feels much more alert.

Pay attention to the other ways the mind feels difference. Focus on what the mood of the mind feels like. Watch and see if energy comes up, or if a bubbling joy or happiness comes up.

All of these things can be meditated on and all of them are of great use.
The non-doing of any evil,
The performance of what's skillful,
The cleansing of one's own mind:
This is the Buddhas' teaching.
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