Yes it is a bit harsh, but everyone gets annoyed sometimes. I think the idea of a perfect life where you never get annoyed is a myth. However, with mindfulness we can acheive quite near perfection.... with just enough imperfection to keep you vigilant. If you find yourself cursing at anyhting uneccessarily, the solution is to correct the error. Sincerely apologize for sending out those crappy vibes in to the world, and move, and stop doing it.
Plus, this may just be my opinion, but I think sometimes people, and objects, or psychological patterns need to be dealt with harshly. Some people will purposely subvert or undermine your reality. They need to be told to back off. This might sound weird, but I think there are also patterns that exist in the world that are also messing with desires to lead the best possible life. Some objects might get in your way to. Maybe I'm crazy, but I think sometimes the universe needs to be told to back off too, and objects might be part of that. Sometimes I can feel my mind wandering in to negative states, and I feel paranoid, as if I can sense bad things potentially happening if I continue on the negative path. But then I send out messages to the world that NO, that bad stuff isn't going to happen. I am dead set in my quest for a better outcome, and I can literally feel the potential negative reality dissipate, and give way to a better one, and I know with certainty that the bad things will not happen.
This way of thinking is something that I am new at though, however I have experineced it. I think everyone should strive to be the master of their own life. Problem is when you're a beginner, I think people tend to misinterpret the signals that the universe sends, and the result is failure and upset. But to live a conscious life you must keep at it. When you get things wrong, it's easy to just give up on the idea that the universe and you are one conscious being, and go back to living a life where whatever happens is just random and either good luck or bad luck. But the truth is the universe is alive, and it is alive within you, intereacting with you every moment. Best to befriend it whenever possible. Yes, believe it or not your computer does sense the vibes you put in to it.... however it senses it through your consciousness. Unconscious things only act as a mirror to how you view them. I'm trying not to view this post as my own intellectul game. It's not easy.
In the past I have done that.... I mean.... I am certain there is truth in what I say, but lately I sense that much of what I have said in the past when it comes to discussion is actually done to affirm my own reality, and not the true reality of the universe. Here's to changing that.